Why Do I Keep on Going Back to the Same Looser? Dating is Tough
Dating can be tough in 2007 for any age group. However, some people keep on going back to the same person that seems to hurt them over and over again. The world today is tough for dating because of the high rate of divorce and the bad dating experiences that many people have on a daily basis. It’s important to understand that it’s not your fault when or if a date goes bad. However, you can begin blaming yourself if the person that you are dating continues to treat you poorly and you still stick around for more.
There is a reason why people break up and it’s usually because one or the other person isn’t happy. If you keep on dating the same guy or girl, then you are never going to find someone that makes you completely happy. You must understand that you cannot force someone to want you or even to love you. As heartbreaking as it may be at the time, it’s always best to let go of someone that is hurting you. This way you can move onto someone that is going to treat you better. It takes a lot of courage to leave someone that only wants to hurt you and often it takes someone taking a few steps forward to say that they have had enough.
If you find yourself going back to the same person over and over again, then it’s because a part of you really loves them and a part of you really cannot stand them. Their comes a point that you just have to say no and usually this is when you no longer want to be second best.
This means that you are generally confused regarding your feelings for him where you can neither live with him nor without him and you need to seriously consult a psychiatrist before things spiral out of control and you sink into depression. While you may consult the okcupid app, it is more for fun and may not give desired results so a dating counselor would be a better choice as he has better knowledge and may provide the right measures to deal with your confusion.
When someone plays “head games” with you, it’s usually because they are involved with another person and they don’t want to tell you that. They are just stringing you along as second best or as a backup plan. You don’t want to deal with this kind of behavior and you certainly don’t want to put yourself as second best to anyone. You need to find someone else who will value you 100% and realize that you have a loving heart. You are a blessing and you must understand that there is a true soul mate out there for everyone. Anyone can meet the man or women of their dreams and its important for you to understand that it may not be the person that you have been dating on and off for all these months or years.
The first step to dating someone new is to cut off your old love/fling completely and never go back to them. It’s a conscious choice that you are going to have to make and you must realize that it’s all or nothing. You have to be aware of the fact that you are going to find your soul mate out there and you must find them when you least expect. Most long term relationships are found when both people are not expecting it to walk into their life.
Never feel like you have to take anyone’s bologna. It’s either they want you or they don’t. It’s up to you to say that you have had enough. Never let the other person decide on whether or not they want the relationship. You must move on immediately if the other person seems like they are to busy or preoccupied to have you in their life. It’s all about