How to Compel your Man to Start Cleaning up the Home
If you are trying to get your man to clean up you have several different options. Be sure, however, to let him use waschsauger and other cleaning tools to have an easier time convincing him.
One method is the positive approach, which is to make it appealing for him by telling him how much happier it makes you feel to have the house cleaned up. You might also let him know that you will partner with him on a special “cleaning day” where both of you pitch in to keep the house clean. You might also offer to make a special deal with him that you will make his favorite foods and prepare snacks for him while he is watching sporting events if he pitches in and cleans when there is nothing good on TV. All of these approaches are positives ones that try to make him understand that his life will be enhanced if he makes some effort to keep the house clean. There are some other ways to get him to help as well. You can offer to have an incentive program in place for him to keep things tidy.
Some examples could be that you will do certain aspects of the cleaning if your man does the others. One system that works well is if you find out which types of cleaning he does not like to do. If you agree to do those types of cleaning, then he will likely agree to do a lot of other types of cleaning up instead. For instance, if your man does not like to clean the bathroom or kitchen, you could agree to keep those rooms tidy if he does the same in living room and bedroom. Many people don’t like to mop floors and clean out the bathtub, so if you agree to do those things you might be surprised that he is perfectly willing to do the rest of the cleaning tasks around the house. The most important step in having your man clean up is to get him to start doing it one time.
After doing it once, he may discover that it was nowhere near as difficult to accomplish as he originally thought. By showing your man that cleaning up is an ongoing process, he may think twice about making a mess because he will know that he is going to be the one who has to clean it up later. Eventually it will be second nature to him that he should keep things clean, so that he will not later have to go through the annoyance and difficulty of cleaning everything at once.
By keeping things clean in the first place, he will eventually become a major partner in keeping the overall house clean. Following these tips are a sure way to get your man to clean up!